I've figured it out! O.k. my husband helped.He has always said that the secret to life is "LOVE" well, of course it is! But, I have a few additional thoughts to add. O.K., first is
Second is what we all tell our wonderful little children when they are learning to play any new sport, I think it works perfectly for grown ups in the real world too.
TRY YOUR BEST AND REMEMBER TO HAVE FUN
NEVER INTENTIONALLY CAUSE PAIN
Right? I think that's a vital part of the secret. So, there you have it THE SECRET OF LIFE well, at least according to me. Maybe I forgot something. Let me know if you can think of anything else.